I ConceivedNaturally at 41Four Months After IVF Failedand a Doctor Told Me I Needed a Surrogate
Now help women navigating infertility, IVF, and pregnancy loss find their way back to their bodies.
You are not alone.
As seen in HuffPost·2025 Latinx Mental Health Conference·Certified Fertility Coach
You did everything right
"And still your body didn't cooperate."
You waited until you were financially stable. Found the right partner. Built the career your parents sacrificed everything for.
Maybe you've been trying for months. Maybe years. Maybe you've graduated to IVF and handed over $30,000, $40,000, $50,000 to doctors who reviewed your file in four minutes.
Maybe you've buried a baby no one talks about. Or maybe you haven't lost a pregnancy, you just haven't been able to start one. And somehow that feels just as isolating, because there's no grief people recognize. Just the quiet accumulation of negative tests and the ¿Y para cuándo? getting louder every year.
And on top of all of it: the silence in your family. The te dije. The feeling that this is somehow your fault for waiting. For choosing your career. For not starting sooner.
You are not broken. But no one is saying that in a way your body can actually receive.
Why me? Because I am you.
"I lost my daughter Paloma at 23 weeks.
Three IVF transfers failed.
Then I conceived naturally, at 41."
I spent 20 years in finance in New York City. I checked every box. And then my body did what no rule could prevent.
I know what it's like to be the woman staring at another negative test. I know what it's like to walk into a transfer already bracing for the call that comes three days later. And I know what it's like to lose a baby your culture doesn't give you language to grieve.
After IVF failed, I walked away from medicine and started doing the work underneath, the grief, the cultural shame, the disconnection from my body that no protocol ever touched.
Four months later, I was pregnant with my son Leo. At 41.
What changed wasn't another protocol. It was what I stopped carrying in my body.
Certified Fertility Coach · Breathwork Facilitator · Health Coach (Dr. Sears) · Published in HuffPost · Speaker, Latinx Mental Health Conference 2025
As featured in: HuffPost, "I Had Followed All My Family's Rules. Then I Couldn't Fulfill Their Biggest Expectation."
What changes when your body feels safe
"9 weeks. Your nervous system. Your grief. Your body."
You stop walking into transfers flooded in cortisol.
Whether you're on cycle 6 or transfer 3, your nervous system stops treating fertility as a threat. The hormonal environment shifts, and so does what's possible.
The cultural weight stops living in your body.
The te dije, the shame, the feeling you chose wrong, we name it, process it, and you stop carrying it into every appointment.
You grieve, fully, for the first time.
Unprocessed grief lives in the body whether you've lost a pregnancy or lost count of negative tests. We create the space medicine always skips.
You rebuild trust with your body.
After loss, after failed transfers, after being treated like a data point, we rebuild that relationship. Gently. On your timeline.
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